Friend Zone, a condition every youngster has gone or going through.
Men usually fell into this pit-hole more often than women, as men’s have a tendency to use brain in all other activities except, in love.Yes, it’s true..We don’t use our brains in love.
Feeling of ‘friend-zoned’ can be tricky and frustrating for Men. Being in friend zone can be inevitable, but there are some ways to avoid the friend zone with women by playing some little psychological tricks.
Be her friend, Not Girlfriend.
Girls love chit chats, that’s why God sent Adam first on earth then Eve. And the more haunting fact is, women think everybody loves to talk as much as she. And when you are being so caring and fulfilling her talking needs you accidently falls into this zone, they think that you’re their best friend who can happily accept all her shit in your ear. Here where the Shit becomes real, and suddenly you realize you’re being friend zoned
Here to play the psychological trick, talk with her, but always keep something unsaid, not listening nor sharing all of it.
How will this help:- This will sub-consciously tell her that, you’re not falling into her best friend space, but still she loves to keep on talking with you. This emotion of ‘unknown’ will build the curiosity of relationship and girls loves being curious.
2. Don’t be her Relationship Counselor
Life is not When Harry Met Sally. Unless you get really lucky—or you take action—she’s not going to wake up one day and realize that all the guys she’s been dating are assholes, and that her true love (you) has been hanging out in her living room all along. You might think you’re just biding your time, but the longer you wait, and the more you get to know her in a friend-type way, the more you risk ending up in her friend zone for life.
For all these kind of shit’s- she has her girlfriends and other friends, which she had already friend zoned- Step back from these conversations show her your time has a value and you are concerned about her only. Act differently and stand out from the crowd.
3. Make yourself Exclusive
In the process, you also tend to get taken for granted , devalued and forgotten. Put simply, people value what they work to obtain and invest in. They also find relationships more valuable and commit more fully, when they invest in them in various ways.
In the process, you also tend to get taken for granted , devalued and forgotten. Put simply, people value what they work to obtain and invest in. They also find relationships more valuable and commit more fully, when they invest in them in various ways. Love is a two way game, and if the other one is simply not participating in it, psychologist calls it just an Attraction.
To make love happen, first create your ‘V’alue make yourself visible, but not easily reachable, that’s the reason why girls love rock stars so much, you don’t need to get on stage or make a band (if you have that in you, then half’s battle won)
The Trick is, surround yourself with others, laugh with them do party, status updates and once she realizes that other’s see some value in you which she missed earlier, this will get generate her an emotion of ‘Wanting you’ and the most deadliest of ‘Why not her?’.
The greatest motivator of human activity is the unknown; and that which is hidden from our view has more power over us than that which is in plain view.
4. Make a move….NOW!
If you are one of those who still thinks that what if she rejected you, what if she will not be your friend anymore, and what if she tell others . Then mate, let me tell you
If you are really able to make a value of yourself in her life, there will be no question of leaving you or rejecting you. If it turned out to be the other way around then follow the above steps and start anew.
Love starts with psychology and psychology can be learnt and followed. Follow the Do’s and Dont’s and have a happy life ever after.
Ps:- Be stylish,Be genuine and Keep loving campussutra